My Toddler Thinks I’m An Idiot

James Proclaims (4)

teddy-2012851_640I think I’ve mentioned it before on this blog, but wife and I are attempting to bring our daughter up to be bilingual.

This stems from our own love of languages – both of us have an undergraduate degree in French Studies. Indeed, that is how we met in the first place.

Having said that, there is little comparison between Mrs Proclaims and I in terms of our mastery of other languages. I scraped through my undergrad course, with what many people refer to as ‘the drinkers degree’. Which, in my case, would be a fair summary. Mrs Proclaims not only secured a First on that particular course (and quite comfortably as I recall) but very quickly obtained an MA in eighteenth century French Literature and is currently working on PhD on nineteenth century French Literature. She’s completely fluent in French, highly competent in Spanish  and a few years back studied Latin, in her spare time, for fun.

Of course I can speak French perfectly well, and were we in a bar in Paris, I could competently order a round of beers. That’s mostly what I spent my time in Paris doing. But my French was never as good as that of my wife and in the ensuing years (and it’s been more years than I care to admit) since we left our undergraduate days behind us, though I have occasionally dabbled as a French teacher, I have mostly pursued occupations which have had very little to do with the language and consequently the gap in our ability has increased.

Nonetheless, I have been very much a part of developing my daughter’s vocabulary in French and as well as speaking to her in French, I frequently read her books in French and watch cartoons with her in French.

In these corona times, she has been deprived of access to toddler groups and the like and consequently has probably been exposed to more French than English, given that we do use the language a lot at home. We’ve noticed that she has a definite preference for speaking the former. Which is pretty positive as I have no doubt that once the ‘new normal’ kicks in and she’s exposed to more English through the medium of ‘just living in England’ that things will balance out.

But had I any fears that Little Proclaims was developing her French at the expense of her English, I need not have worried.

Because my daughter has clearly noticed the difference in competence between my wife and I. Just the other day, Little Proclaims and I were out for a walk and an aeroplane flew overhead.

She looked up in wonder and excitedly exclaimed “Avion!”

Then she looked at me, with pity in her eyes and calmly translated for me.

“Plane.”

 

 

  41 comments for “My Toddler Thinks I’m An Idiot

  1. June 8, 2020 at 9:59 am

    As I have a French partner and we live in the Flemish speaking part of Belgium, my three boys are growing up trilingual. I have just about gotten used to having my (admittedly poor) language skills constantly being shown up by a bunch of kids.

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    • June 8, 2020 at 10:25 am

      I think I’m just beginning my journey towards regularly being shown up. She’s not even two yet…

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      • June 8, 2020 at 10:52 am

        You get used to it… 😉

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  2. June 8, 2020 at 10:12 am

    Good on you for at least trying to teach your daughter a second language. It will be a great skill to have. I was too lazy in that department. I wish I had though.

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    • June 8, 2020 at 10:28 am

      I’m glad we’re doing it but I think we’re quickly heading towards the day when I bring nothing to the table…

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      • June 8, 2020 at 10:32 am

        Then your clever wife can teach both you and your daughter! You can bring the snacks.

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      • June 8, 2020 at 10:42 am

        As long as she doesn’t try and cut my hair…
        I can definitely do snacks…

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      • June 8, 2020 at 10:43 am

        Haha… everyone should be given one chance. Didn’t you get the point of my story? Go on, give your wife a chance. Then blog about the results.

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      • June 8, 2020 at 10:46 am

        We’ll give it a couple more weeks…

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  3. Bear
    June 8, 2020 at 2:36 pm

    Ah well, at least you can still be an ‘idiot’ in both languages.

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    • June 8, 2020 at 3:06 pm

      A silver lining if ever there was one

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  4. June 8, 2020 at 2:54 pm

    There’s so much great 19th century French, British, and Russian literature.

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    • June 8, 2020 at 3:32 pm

      If I agree then I’ll have to acknowledge I’m not quite as stupid as the blog persona I’m trying to convey…

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  5. June 8, 2020 at 3:11 pm

    I well remember the time I asked (several times) for an extra actuator (steller) in a German restaurant when I wanted a plate (teller)!

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  6. June 8, 2020 at 3:33 pm

    Ha! Dumb it down for daddy… I love it.
    But the real eye opener? I could have earned a degree in drinking!!!

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    • June 8, 2020 at 3:34 pm

      I think you’ve slightly misunderstood the terminology. Although that would actually still qualify you for the award…

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  7. June 8, 2020 at 4:43 pm

    Being raised bilingual is good for the kids. I am an educator at a nursery, and we encourage the parents to try “one person – one speech”. In that way, the parents can speak the language they are most comfortable with, and the toddler hears both (or more) languages enough to grow a passive vocabulary. The active vocabulary needs more time, but growing up with more than one language is beneficial for the kids. I studied how language develops and how learning multiple languages at a young age affect the children’s cognitive development. Stepping off my soapbox. 🙂 (I am very passionate about my work)

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  8. June 8, 2020 at 5:18 pm

    Well, at least Little Proclaims was thoughtful enough to translate for you…

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  9. Jay
    June 8, 2020 at 9:14 pm

    Je suis bilingue aussi. Mon école primaire était francophone, mon école secondaire a préposé un programme d’immersion française, et mon Université était entièrement bilingue – notre travaille pourrait être soumis dans la langue de notre choix. Ma mère est éducatrice à une école francophone (Terre des jeunes) et mes neveux et ma petite nièce vont à une aussi (Rose des vents). Les langues viennent façilement en enfance!

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    • June 8, 2020 at 10:04 pm

      Je ne suis pas bilingue malheureusment mais j’espère que ma fille sera aussi accompli que sa mère et ta famille (on peut se tutoyer?).

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  10. June 11, 2020 at 5:23 pm

    LOL! It is nice of her to recognize and support your needs.

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    • June 11, 2020 at 6:16 pm

      She is a very patient teacher but I feel I’m a disappointing student…

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  11. June 15, 2020 at 9:15 am

    My undergraduate was in French and Spanish and then I studied towards a MA in Translation and Interpreting in Spanish only. French never seemed to get easier and now I haven’t practised in a few years …
    Great post!

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    • June 15, 2020 at 9:19 am

      It definitely doesn’t get easier, but for now I can still manage to follow Peppa Pig in French, which seems to be sufficient. She’s definitely going to leave me behind fairly soon though. I tried learning Spanish once and really enjoyed it. Time (or lack of it) always seems to get in the way, but I’d definitely like to give it another go.

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      • June 15, 2020 at 9:26 am

        She has age on her side too! Everyone says a toddler is like a sponge for new information and new languages!

        I actually started learning Spanish a lot later than French, but it completely took over and seemed far more natural to learn 🙂 Perhaps you could learn Spanish too and then you’d have a trilingual daughter on your hands 😉

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      • June 15, 2020 at 9:28 am

        My wife already speaks Spanish quite well so I imagine my little sponge will be absorbing that soon enough, but I will endeavour to keep up as best I can 🙂

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  12. June 15, 2020 at 7:34 pm

    What a precocious kid. Usually they wait until they’re in their teens to think their parents are idiots.

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    • June 15, 2020 at 7:47 pm

      I’m extremely privileged in that respect. Hopefully by the time she’s a teen she’ll just feel sorry for me…

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  13. Sheri and Gabriëlle
    June 28, 2020 at 10:01 am

    When my siblings and I were younger we weren’t allowed to speak another language than Dutch. At school and at home. Now we are older and have our families our kids talk more than only Dutch

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    • June 28, 2020 at 10:24 am

      Yes I grew up only speaking English even though my dad could speak two languages. I think we’re more aware of the benefits of multilingualism these days

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  14. July 15, 2020 at 4:38 am

    I can relate to this. 🙂

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  15. July 22, 2020 at 12:18 am

    Haha, thanks for the laugh!

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